12-16-2012, 05:25 PM
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How Do You Identify?:
Femme
Preferred Pronoun?:
Sweet Femme ones
Relationship Status:
Peeking around the corner...
Join Date: Oct 2011
Location: Rochester, NY
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I find it rude and demeaning. Hurtful, disrespectful. Like a femme is supposed to sit quietly and look pretty and not be heard....um, no.
I have a strong voice and opinion at times....I will be heard. I would not appreciate a headpat as a way to silence me....at all.
It has been done to me in the past, and I sweetly yet firmly suggested it not be done to me again.
It feels awful...like you don't matter in the situation....
I am not a dog....reserve headpatting for the furbabies please. 
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