OMG my last boss used to say and do such fucked up things- like ask me when I was going to have a sex change to become a "real" woman. I used to just tell him what a douche-bag he is and give him the middle finger. The worst thing is he used to always lob shit at my head- wadded up paper, warehouse debris, etc. One time he threw some shit that hit my eye and cut my face right next to my fucking eye. I totally lost it. I started grabbing everything around me and winging it at his face as hard as I could. He ran, I followed. I got him cornered in the warehouse and kept beaming him in the head with product and anything within reach. He grabbed a pallet and tried to sheild himself with it but I got right up on him and macked shit into his head over the top of it while he begged me to stop and screamed how he would never do it again. I did this until I tired myself out and the buzzer up front rang that let us know a client was coming in. I left to deal with the client and when I was done I went in the back and like a good boy he had cleaned up every bit of the mess. We never directly spoke about it but he always caught himself after that and never did it again, although he still pressed his luck a bit.
About a year later they moved an HR person down to the plant and something came up in conversation and I offhandedly mentioned something about his bad behavior. The HR woman told me I had to write down every fucked up thing he had ever done. I told her no way was I doing that- it would take too long. She obviously didn't give a shit but my off-hand comment had accidentally set some obligatory HR mechanism in motion. Management didn't act too friendly to me after that, but they did give me some nice raises. I can't believe I stayed there 4 years.
My advice is to keep your mouth shut. Management doesn't really give a crap. Just be glad she isn't there much. If you're really annoyed, type out a nice letter to your boss and give it to her after you've moved on to a nice new job. It might still effect the future references she gives you though.
Best of luck!
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