Thank you for your answers. I was dumbfounded as to why the only negatively rated thread was the butch bonding thread.
As to the questions others have asked: I became conscious of being butch when others kept telling me I was. Often prefaced by the word "too".
And the pronouns- No I do not like being called bro or male pronouns. Out in the world I just assume the person is not paying very close attention. Unless it's a 'phobe saying it, in which case they are implying I am less than a real woman. If it is online from a stranger I just assume they are sexist and misogynist and that they elevate maleness over femaleness. Of course for those who prefer male pronouns for themselves I respect that preference completely. In that instance the person is only being themselves and I respect the bros that do. But I am not a bro.
Aso, I do burp on occasion but I try not to
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