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Old 03-31-2010, 07:19 PM   #2
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Originally Posted by HowSoonIsNow View Post
Interesting to think about.


Prior to this marriage, she was always pretty quiet about her personal life. I think she felt secure enough to discuss her thoughts on marriage and how it made her a better person and actor because she truly believed in the veracity of his love for her. If that's having her head in the clouds and being a victim in the making, that's a bit sad.


I'm not sure I'm with the first theory of trying to convince herself. But, we'll never know what she knew or was thinking. Personally, watching the footage of her discussing her love for him--it seemed very natural and not contrived to convince herself or anyone.

I think that is what would get to me the most--telling everyone how my marriage and guy made my life so much better--how incredible he is, while he's been betraying me throughout.
Only they know the truth, maybe. I just know what process is set off for me when I hear something like this.

And, I do believe there are always clues to cheating which we often choose to ignore. People are patterns of behavior. When the pattern changes, its time to look at whats happening.
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