[Kobi]

And on and on it goes lol.

Here I was the one who brought up using words carefully and I didnt when I spoke of people speaking publicly about how happy they are as a red flag for me. It is hard to explain in words, it is a feeling, it is something being said out of character, it is something you get a feel for. Saying you are happy with someone per se is not a red flag.

Rufus, I dont know if people are hard wired for monogamy or if it is cultural, economic, religious, or whatever. I know I am hard wired for monogamy.

And for cheaters heading to rehab for sexual addiction.......take away their access to viagra......I find it hard to believe these folks can carry on as they supposedly do without some artifical help.