Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme
Preferred Pronoun?: She, her
Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself
Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: West Coast
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The technology is secondary to that of the the primary issue of trust.
I would never expect to know my partner's passwords or read her email (nor do I want to)!
I still have never Googled anyone that I personally know- maybe a movie or singer star here or there.
I know many folks do or have done so and I hold no judgments about it other than for me: it feels wrong and very uncomfortable to contemplate doing that.
Everyone has a private life with private thoughts-even when partnered.
Trust is the be-all and end-all for me.
So is being my own person.
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~Anya~
Democracy Dies in Darkness
~Washington Post
"...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable."
UN Human Rights commissioner
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