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Originally Posted by laruss
Thank you to everyone who responded. I do have a great group of friends who accept me for who I am, however in looking for that special someone it gets a bit tougher.
I realized last night that really I am not even bi, I really am pangender. Will this make it even more confusing?
I have never really understood the labels. My mother was married twice to men, then in two committed relationships with women. She had been in a relationship with a woman for 22 years when she died. My brother is a gay man so I have always been around all orientations. I always just thought of people as people. It's the person I fall in love with, not the outer package or their label.
That is not as acceptable out here in the real world. You must label and identify with said label. I don't... or I didn't until I found this new label, lol, now I can call myself pangender and confuse people even more.
I think I will check and see about what support groups we have here.
Thank you again to everyone who responded.
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I am pansexual, so I certainly understand wheee you are coming from Laruss!!!! It can be difficult for people to understand . Often I notice that I am treated differently based on who I have chosen as a partner but I do feel like there is a really strong, supportive community right here. You, my friend, are more than welcome to message me anytime and I hope you feel the loving acceptance, as I have had, while you continue your journey to embrace yourself and your own expectations.