I have exes and relationships/potential relationships where I didn't "learn" anything. I just got very hurt, felt very misunderstood and falsely accused of a million things under the sun, and I feel it was a big waste of my time when I was trying to be patient and give of myself and I ended up being very unappreciated.
Other exes and people I have had in my life I remember fondly.
So no I don't go by the adage that every person who enters my life in some way happens for a reason. I just need to be a better judge of character. I guess that's my lesson.
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Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other.
- Rainer Maria Rilke
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