I consider myself a lesbian femme with a few basic qualifiers:
I think I'm probably about a 4.5 - 5 on the Kinsey Scale.
I consider myself somewhat gender-queer, though I'm comfy with the "femme" identity.
Most of the people I'm the most attracted to fall in the butch range, though claimed identities vary. And there are quite a few femmes I wouldn't kick out of bed.
Oh, and speaking of bed: I'm not a big believer in quid-pro-quo in the bedroom. I'm selfish and I want my lovers to be selfish too. I don't want any altruistic or obligatory bedroom deeds done on my account. I want to relish and relish being relished and so far in my life that has looked so many different ways depending on the dynamic I have going with a person.