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					Originally Posted by  Julie
					 
				 
				Who is trivializing it?   
If (and I am assuming) by my WHO CARES comment.  I can assure you, I do not think any part of a relationship or commitment is trivial, including taking or changing your name.  I think it is sad, when we start shaming people for their choices. 
			
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 absolutely. quote the shaming. lets look at it.