[Parker]

Originally Posted by honeybarbara

eta: Parker... I did think you might think I was refering to your thoughts about thinking about BJs

no. I was blathering because I just was thinking about shit and flapping my fingers. as I am rambling about types of cock.

and taking something or leaving something is a lot different, to me, than "meh" when it becames all about me and she could read a newspaper while it's going on. Instead of getting excited with me. And what the measure of just how much excitement is considered enough? and some xymales hate blowjobs and some aren't all that moved by them. I know quite a few guys who have never cum that way cause it just doesn't drive it home for them. It's nice, they enjoy it but its not a giant cake of sex.

we all like things to different degrees. as long as slome thought, that's hot to watch... even it they aren't going into la la land and having 15 orgasms from it, that's good enough for me. Plus the vibrator trick while slipping a couple fingers up and sucking on the cock I find makes them reach other bonna even if it's just fun rather than "WOW I FUCKING LOVE BLOW JOBS, ME"

lol right?

lol, right. (<-- not sarcasm)

And I wasnt sure if you were referring to me or not, but your post got me to thinking so I re-read my original post and wanted to at least try to clarify my feelings around it. Not sure if I made it more clear or muddier, but like I said, you got me thinking and I wanted to make the effort.