[imperfect_cupcake]

I think there are so many different concepts though.... For instance those whom I was with who liked strap on sometimes but didn't have their socks blown off by it and/or sort of enjoyed watching me suck off a dildo (as long as I was also using my fingers or a toy elsewhere) but did not find it their favourite thing to do.... just enjoyed the view and the attention... Were also the ones who did not feel like a dildo was an extension of themselves. Did they have a female cock? Yes. That's what their clit was. They liked clit fucking me and having me give head to their clit and had their "cock" in their hands.

I know there is far, far more than that, some who don't see any part of their person as a female dick at all.

But I'd say if met more butches that fall into the category of the top paragraph, than those that connect with their strap ons. And I've met plenty of tomboys who do.

I did used to strap on and had that moment of connection myself the rare time with two partners. I don't really strap on these days as it's not something I ever think about but I'm sure someone with the right attitude and sex appeal could convince me to and it would be fun. If I have that chemistry with someone and they ask me to wear a helmet, crocs and an elephant mask to bed and they go berzerk for it, I'd probably find it an ultimate mate turn on to be honest. But then I've learned my lesson of me telling people "oh no, I'd never do that. Ew. Are you nuts?" And then some random super hottie says "I liked to be fucked with a cheese whiz sandwich, you'll do it and like it!" And I'll say "like fuck I will"
And the. Three hours later I'm fucking them with a cheese whiz sandwich and thanking them for it.

I do have a good time in sex, I have to say. It's like how other people feel about football.