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Originally Posted by Martina
Really? So are you the one saying stone femmes are not lesbians? What was the point of this?
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That definition doesn't disinclude stone femmes.
As for my point: that's pretty much the definition of lesbian in a practical sense. Some may wish to push certain parameters in certain ways, but that's how language works anyway. The situation I observe here in talking about anything like this is things deteriorate into fine-line arguments about essence: is or isn't. What if we use the general terms most use in practice and recognize that variation is inevitable and acceptable. Then we can mildly ask for clarification or define a real issue without what feels like policing going on.