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Ginger · 05-22-2014, 04:33 PM

Anaisninja,

Dating is brutal and fun and everything in between. You have to develop a thick skin and yet not lose touch with your softness.

But you know all this, I think.

That person sounds really socially immature.

Her response to the date was such a silly overreaction. So what, you meet someone, and realize you're not into it. Haven't most of us been on both sides of that story? I know I have.

Her response was to make drama out of something that two grownups could have easily handled.

I'm willing to bet if you were in her shoes you would have handled it really differently—in a way that reflects your moral depth and maturity.

She might not have those tools. Her toolbox might be somewhat empty.

She's not whole enough for you.

That's my theory.

I hope you feel better soon.

Ginger

05-22-2014, 04:33 PM	#34
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,296 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Anaisninja, Dating is brutal and fun and everything in between. You have to develop a thick skin and yet not lose touch with your softness. But you know all this, I think. That person sounds really socially immature. Her response to the date was such a silly overreaction. So what, you meet someone, and realize you're not into it. Haven't most of us been on both sides of that story? I know I have. Her response was to make drama out of something that two grownups could have easily handled. I'm willing to bet if you were in her shoes you would have handled it really differently—in a way that reflects your moral depth and maturity. She might not have those tools. Her toolbox might be somewhat empty. She's not whole enough for you. That's my theory. I hope you feel better soon. Ginger __________________ Reach out.