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Originally Posted by candy_coated_bitch
This is the thing that keeps bugging me: Who gets to say that RuPaul isn't "trans enough" to be part of the "in group" that gets to use the word tranny? Who? Who are the keepers of that key? The ones that wave the magic wand and grant any person that right to use it?
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I agree with this. I can relate because as a petite butch cis-female I'm often told I'm not butch enough.
I'm also old enough where the 'T' word was used by transwomen, drag queens and transvestites (anyone else remember the 70s?)
Back then, I recognized it as a term they used for themselves and like 'Dyke' was a pejorative when used by someone outside of that tribe.
I still feel that way. I don't use the word, and today if a 'non-cross-dressing' cis-gendered person uses it I speak up. It's not theirs to use.