Thanks for posting this, I also wish the best for another young person going through this.
As I read through the article I kept being struck yet again with just how much the english language needs a non-gendered pronoun for individuals. We as a culture adopt new words into the lexicon all the time, com'on "google" is now a common verb, it shouldn't be this hard. Other languages have them, why are we so stubborn on this? It would eliminate the whole argument entirely instead of this bizarre circle-the-drain debate that seems to overshadow the trans experience in favor of semantics.
Hmm, looks like a rant. Sorry, this bugs me to no end.
