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Originally Posted by MasterfulButch
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Imagine (if you need to) that you’ve found your ideal partner(s) and there are no tedious barriers like financial situations to worry about, what would your optimum relationship format look like?
I’m thinking general here. Would you be monogamous? Would you be poly? Live together? Live in neighbouring properties with an inter-connecting door? Be focussed primarily on other things (e.g. work)? Backpack around the world together? Are you soulmates? Best friends? Have a commitment ceremony? Call her/them wife? Have children? Have pets? Start a charity together? Still be together twenty years on? Live in the moment? BDSM? Vanilla?
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The dream: Our world would be sharing a cabin near water close to a small town, some animals running around and my little food stand with homemade goods. I would employ people with disabilities to give them employment. (this is my current job) My best friend would be my husband. Our dogs would play together while the toddler ran around chasing them. Hy would be Leather, A Top, Daddy.. I am the girl. Whatever Hys passions are I would support as Hy would understand mine and support me as well. If either of us wanted to go to school we would make the sacrifices necessary to make that happen. We agree that money is never an object because we have each other.. food and a roof over our head. Passion is brought from tender loving times, adventures we share and our common ground for mutual respect and love. The only vanilla is the cake I am baking.
There is a time for romantic unbridled passion, kink, calm and just being together. We encourage each other to be the best they can be... We support independence of each other. We are a We not a you and me. We always kiss before bed, no matter how the day went. Years later we are on the porch swing Hy made.. watching the sunset.. (a girl can dream)