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Originally Posted by WolfyOne
I read all these posts and sit here, think to myself, why do words not come so easy for me when I want to write in this thread, but my poetry can flow. All I can say is if anyone wants to get an inside look at me, find my poetry thread and start at the beginning.
I'm slow out the gate when it comes to love. When I get interested in a single femme, she's usually dating someone by the time I get brave enough to ask her out. I often think, if it was meant to be it would. The powers that be would just put us in the same space and let the dance begin. I'm the kind of person that knows from the first look and the first hug, if we made a connection.
It's been over 4 years since I've been in a relationship. I had to make sure all the cobwebs were cleaned out of my heart and head just to be fair to myself and anyone that may take an interest in me. I didn't want to be vulnerable and perhaps open old wounds. In fact, it honestly scares me a little to get involved, let my heart feel again, but I know I can and I will. It's part of human nature. We want to feel without pain, but it happens. We want to love forever, but sometimes it doesn't happen that way. We take that leap of faith and always hope for the best...well, here I am taking that leap of faith.
I'm a gentle butch looking for a femme that accepts me as I am, flawed. I'm 55 even if my friends don't think I look or act my age at times. Must love animals, if you really want to get to know me. Those that do know me from BFP in real life can probably tell you more about me than I have written here.
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It's never easy getting back into the mode of trying to find a person to share our lives with. It's scary, especially if you've been hurt before. Who wants to get their heart broken time after time? So I applaud you for taking that leap!
We all have our faults, I like to think it's what makes us unique or differ from others. If we were perfect, we would be boring!
Femmes... I know this post was written awhile ago and not sure if Wolfie is still looking or not but...while I don't know Wolfie all that well, I do have to say that from what I do know.... (I'm not sure if you go by hy/she) hy is funny, loves to laugh, and is loyal to those people who are hys friends/family. I know that Wolfie loves to dance and has a great time doing so! I've seen that in person at past Reunions. I know hy loves animals as well, which in my book always says a lot about a person. Wolfie is definitely a great sport also... wore a tutu at last years reunion. I don't know many Butches/Guys who would have done that.. I wouldn't have lol.
Anyway, if you are looking for a genuine, caring, funny person... take a look here. You never know... you might find a like connection that could lead to more!
(Sorry Wolfie for writing this if you aren't looking anymore. Just thought since you said your friends could write more that I would add some stuff.)