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Preferred Pronoun?:  Hy/hym/hys but in circumstances like work and some other places she 
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			Femminator, 
 
I think all the questions you are asking for her and all the questions she is asking for herself can come at any time during one's development when the environment opens up the possibility and support to explore and this can be for many different things. 
 
I was in my 60's when I had a similar awakening as your partner. I am still on my journay and have different feelings, thoughts and desires regarding my gender identification all the time.  
 
I think having a supportive person in her life and in your life will be a home run. glad you found us. I hope she feels that we are a place for  her as well.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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