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for me, accepting my body has been a thing that i've had to do more than once. as i age, my body changes, and my feelings about it change. as i age, and my perspective changes, my feelings about my place in the world change. and, honestly, as i age, the public (in general) seems a little more accepting (or, maybe i'm getting better at ignoring them
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Dear Mr. M,
You bring up an interesting point, which is, how does aging affect the culture's level of acceptance of people, like butches, who present in ways that are not hetero-normative?
I wonder if you are on to something; if there is indeed more acceptance of butches once they reach a certain age.
I think it might be the opposite for femmes—we become more invisible, and are devalued because of our age.
Anyway, thanks for putting your thoughts out there.
Welcome to the Planet!
Scout