I feel totally confused by this thread and I'm too impatient to read more carefully so that's all on me.
That said, I think I'm hearing that people commit to monogamy at different points in the continuum of getting close, and sometimes that is problematic.
I'm monogamous and usually start having sex before I know someone very well. That hasn't worked well for me, so I'm changing my strategy.
Good luck, everyone!
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