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How Do You Identify?: jenny
Preferred Pronoun?: babygirl
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Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Houston, Texas
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i feel bad. i just kinda went off on a coworker. He always jokes with me when he sees me eating and says things like "watch out you are going to get fat!"
That is a terrible thing to say to a recovering anorexic and could potentially be triggering to the point of relapse (and he does know i had anorexia).
It has been bothering me for a while but i didn't say anything b/c i hate confrontation
today he did it again and i didn't yell but i got that not-loud-but-obviously-agitated tone and i told him "do not say things like that! do not every talk to me about my food or my weight! you are going to give me a relapse"
he went down to his office and hasn't come back
I feel bad for getting stern with him
but what he's been doing is all kinds of dickish, right?
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