Oh yeah... I get that date/dating has different meanings/motives for different people. BUT... it's important to realize that there is a generally understood/accepted meaning/motive to date/dating ... even if it doesn't apply to us.
A quick Google of the definition ...
1. establish or ascertain the date of (an object or event).
2. indicate or expose as being old-fashioned.
3.
go out with (someone in whom one is romantically or sexually interested).
Or
WIKI...
"Dating is a stage of romantic or sexual relationships in humans whereby two or more people meet socially, possibly as friends or with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a prospective partner in a more committed intimate relationship or marriage. It can be a form of courtship that consists of social activities done by the couple."
So... as long as one verbalizes to the other party ... in advance... that their particular definition does not follow/align with the generally accepted definition of date/dating... I say go for it! To do otherwise will very likely lead to a misunderstanding and hurt feelings.
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Originally Posted by knight
Absolutely not for me. I think its impossible to constantly have capacity for something that is long term. In my opinion, dating is a great way to discover yourself and to grow as a person. I do not believe that in a lifetime that we should always dive into the idea of a marriage. How does one truly understand their need without experiencing life in that way?
I think its great for others that are on a constant search for that one and to be in a position where they can always have capacity for the possibility.
For me it does not work that way. There are stages in life where I feel people have no business diving into a long term relationship.. When do we grow as humans, when do we find out what our truth is.
No right or wrong answer here... but that is my feeling on the matter.
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Originally Posted by girl_dee
Nope... i want to date, not settle.down...
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