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A Lady..Femme..Free Spirit with a touch of survivalist woman in me.
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Spiritual Warrior..She Ra..Baby Doll, or anything close..ha!
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In perfect love and perfect trust I believe that will be directed..for now Just friends in my life.
Join Date: Mar 2010
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Originally Posted by Toughy
hhmmmmmmm
Seems this question brings up a whole bunch of hetero-normative crap........
Femmes are the ones talking about taking the last name of their partner. Why is the assumption that femme should change/hyphenate her name and not butch/tg/trans/man/masculine of center/_____ changing/hyphenating their last name?
I will not change my last name under any circumstances. I also would highly object to anyone I marry taking my last name. The name change thing is about transfer of property and people are not property (or corporations....snort). I also would not hyphenate my last name, but I am unsure about her using a hyphen....probably not.
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Very good points you made.
And I myself choose to do this but if my mate wanted, I would not be oposed to the opposite.
I do it for love reason not ownership.
I guess it is all in the intent and actions taken.
But I do understand your postion on this.
Also it would have to be with and for,
someone who I truely trusted and did not feel like an object to.
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