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Originally Posted by proximitywithoutintimacy
Update: Just got a voicemail from her... saying "we're not leaving until June now... blah blah..."
I'm pretty sure she's drunk, she mentioned something about Jose Cuervo... my goodness... but I still have to cut off contact once again. I won't let her do this, and I told her earlier that I needed time away from her to move on. She wants to go back to being friends, but it's not that easy. I need to move on from her as my lover first, and then maybe someday, we can reclaim our friendship. Someday.
Damn women...  
And, I just realised I spelled "learning" without the N... now I feel stupid, haha. Guess I was pretty distraught =/ |
No contact... period
Tell her that you need time.. (at least six months at the very least) and if she won't respect that time then block her.. block everything and delete her phone number from you phone...
If need be .. burn that bridge and tell her that you will get a restraining order...
You need to be oh so selfish right now... What she wants, needs, desires is not your concern... (I know that is hard) She chose her path and you no longer have any responciblilties twards her...
I've been where you were... One min I'm thinking I'm getting a new ring for christmas and the next min her new girl friend is moving in...
I was broken... That girl was broken beyond repair...
But you know what? The woman who came out that hell is a stronger, wiser, happier and healthier person that that girl ever was...
Take your time putting yourself back together... Take a brutal look at your self... see what your part you played...
The only one who can put yourself back together is you...