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How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke
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If multiple people asked me out, I would get to know the people that interested me, expecting them to do the same until I naturally gravitated to someone who I clicked with and felt had the same values and goals.
Hopefully, they would find me to be similarly of interest. If not, then I would keep talking, hanging out and getting to know people of interest.
What I learned is dating. Courting, to me, is an entirely different thing. That's after there is a conscious choice of wanting to pursue something deemed very suitable and desired. Once you actually know someone. Well.
Obviously, this isn't a commonly held idea. But it's what I personally go by.
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