[1QuirkyKiwi]

Originally Posted by princessbelle

So yeah back to topic.

I happen to love BC. However, when i first came out to myself as a lesbian, oh so many moons ago, I didn't like it at all. Or should i say i didn't like the "idea" of it. Maybe i was going through the acceptance phase and i just didn't understand it. It felt male to me. I was shocked the first time i even knew it existed. Call me green, i sure was. I didn't make the connection it was part of my partners body. Now it is a no brainer for me and "it" just totally is part of my partner's body, no doubt about it.

It took a few years to wrap my head around it. I can certainly understand why some people may not like it at all. To each his/hys/her own for sure.

Curious if any one else went through anything similar?

Now i love it and can't imagine life or a relationship without it. But it was a journey.

For many years I felt the very idea of any c*ck was repulsive, after all I'm lesbian - it wasn't until I was living in Norway, close to family, that I was gently introduced to it by the Butch I was in a relationship with. It was a gradual process for me of exploring and releasing my self imposed 'ideas' about it and understanding the energy of my partner.

Oh boi! Did I learn a lot about my myself sexually, lol!