Currently transitioning is not an option for me.
I ID as male. I'm constantly explaining, or wincing when I hear "ma'am" in reference to me.
Several of my residents call me Mr. *insert bio name*. It's a hard position to be in.
I have been mildly gay bashed at where I work. I don't agree with it, but with the economy the way it is, I'm not going to leave my job without something else in place.
My other half got a rude awakening when she realized what life with me could be like and how it could be difficult for me.
Even though it would be easier for me, I elect to not transition fully. Currently, there are tenative plans for some top surgery. I'm not entirely sure if it will be traditional top surgery that FTMs receive or just a reduction.
Also, a factor in my decision has to do with cost. My insurance will cover a reduction, for example. However, it will not cover top surgery. If it comes down to that, I have to decide which I can live with.
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