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PatrickIver · 01-23-2015, 05:25 PM

I am with Gemme on this one. I think just acknowledging the email and saying, thank you and good luck on your journey. It needs to be no more than that as it clear you are not ready to go there. As for the other person, she is taking the steps to better herself and part of that is trying to "tie off some loose ends" (so to speak) from the past. It is not about you making things easier or better for this person on that journey. I also agree with Gemme that just not acknowledging it, would be hinky. It appears you are a better person than that, given you have thought enough about it to come here and ask for advice. Bravo, for doing that.

Bottom line, I do not think it needs to go into being a "big thing".

01-23-2015, 05:25 PM	#14
PatrickIver Timed Out - Identity Issues How Do You Identify?: AG - Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Mister Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jan 2015 Location: East Coast Posts: 138 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 285 Thanked 348 Times in 106 Posts Rep Power: 0	I am with Gemme on this one. I think just acknowledging the email and saying, thank you and good luck on your journey. It needs to be no more than that as it clear you are not ready to go there. As for the other person, she is taking the steps to better herself and part of that is trying to "tie off some loose ends" (so to speak) from the past. It is not about you making things easier or better for this person on that journey. I also agree with Gemme that just not acknowledging it, would be hinky. It appears you are a better person than that, given you have thought enough about it to come here and ask for advice. Bravo, for doing that. Bottom line, I do not think it needs to go into being a "big thing".