at this time, I am neither. I have chosen not to indulge in romantic or sexual relationships. I am way too damaged. I have a submissive who meets my companion and diverse needs but other than that, I have concluded I prefer not to bother. I have healed as much as I could from past affairs and its still not good enough to offer another human being. Nor am I interested. (shrugs) I am still warm and soft and caring. I just dont want you to get That Close. So I dont pursue and I make sure I give no signals of wanting to be pursued...
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Pole bachit, a lis chuye.
The field sees, the forest hears
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