[sweetbutch26]

Originally Posted by Nawen

Nah.

Relationships are work* and believing in 'The One' would make me give up on anything that is 'less than' some imaginary perfection.
* not in a bad sense.

I do believe there are people we click with more than with others based on interest, views on life and similiar things... and those are the people that are worth working on the relationship with and making each of us the other person's soulmate.

For me it's tied with that 'I can't control your actions, I can only control my reactions to them' - it's not about the other person being this or that, it's about me viewing those qualities as good (or bad).

Hm, hope this made sense.

it did thank you much hun