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Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow
Ms Apoca I am gonna jump off your post.
So what does one do when you have made it clear, a THOUSAND times with patience, with kindness and the person still does not respect those boundaries?
Do I just chalk it up to the fact they have a disability and they are gonna use that as an excuse time and time again?
Curious how you would handle this cause I don't have a soft buffer like yourself?
TheLadySnow 
i was thinking apocalipstic's post was really good [to me] about her ability to understand posts, over the years, which may have been written by DA, and NT moderated.
your question, although it's to apocalipstic, i would like to respond to, please. in my own experiences, i could ask the very same thing about NT's who disrespect boundaries time and time again- do i chalk it up to being the 'majority?"
this is very interesting, because i sometimes have wondered if NT's - DA or not - notice certain things, which can get lost during my translation to someone not on the spectrum, whenever i try to explain what i just heard and/or saw - and these NT words/behaviours can happen rapid-fire.
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We have all joined a site, that has a set of rules, we all live in a society with sets of rules. Be we either NT or not we have to abide to the rules and boundaries that are set by one another or that have been already set.
So NT or DA matters not, I could use the fact that english is not my first language and I am dyslexic, then again you are assuming we are all NT no? We all have a knowing of what is right and wrong, if we do not have that comprehension then we are asking for trouble if allowance is being given time and time again because of someone's illness
Make sense?