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How Do You Identify?: femme, submissive, girl
Preferred Pronoun?: she
Relationship Status: Singular
Join Date: Apr 2011
Location: Vancouver BC
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I don't make lists but I DO set intentions. Before I met Red Menace, on a forum I'm a part of, I had ironically stated what I wanted my relationship to feel like.
Stating intentions that are open ended is a healthy thing I think- I want fun, adventurous relationships with good clear communication etc...
Setting out firm wish lists only leads to looking for people with specifics and not for people with the important characteristics they have. I've seen so many folks use lists to basically avoid intimacy and true connection.
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