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Originally Posted by Ginger
That said, I think I'm hearing that people commit to monogamy at different points in the continuum of getting close, and sometimes that is problematic.
Good luck, everyone!
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Ding! That's it entirely. Sometimes that isn't about "speed" as some people commit to monogamy easily and casually and they don't mean it to be as serious as *I* see it when the word monogamy gets whipped out.
If I am actually jiving with someone on all others levels, then this problem is something I personally am fine with questioning intent over and coming to a deeper understanding.
But I'm asking others what they think about
"People commit to monogamy at different points in the continuum" and how they approach a bump in it.