Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?: her poison apple
Preferred Pronoun?: b. grrl
Relationship Status: xoxo
Join Date: Nov 2009
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For me it's more about how you personally feel about it..i wouldn't feel like property if i took the name of my lover..and this doesn't feel like a bad thing (since I'm his & he is mine) .. it's all relative..we are here for a short time and so if it makes you and your lover happy then do it or not..life has enough built in rules no need to make more..(imo)
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"All cruelty springs from weakness"
Seneca
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