[JAGG]

I am not a parent, but I am all about bypassing the middle man. Why not go talk to the teacher yourself. Your daughter was present at the gathering . Why not call and ask to have a private meeting with him. Tell him how you feel and how it appears to someone looking in from the outside. He may be totally innocent , he may be gay for all we know. Calling the school would surely get him in hot water, and maybe for no valid reason . Talking to him in person, at the very least it will make him aware that his actions have the propensity to lead to inapproprate behavior, if he isn't already aware of that. And if he is trying to be sly at least he knows he is being watched and that you don't approve. Just my two cents worth.