San Francisco Castro District http://mycastro.com/ and
the San Francisco Buddhist Centerhttp://sfbuddhistcenter.org/
Public Transportation plus happy and gay people everywhere.
Also, San Diego Gaslamp and Hillcrest districts http://hsss.tv/archives/1040...The area and are weather are beautiful all year round. http://www.sandiego.org/article_set/Visitors/9
San Diego Kadampa Center
San Diego welcomes gay and lesbian travelers with a vast array of activities, including six popular annual Pride festivities, and a vibrant gay and lesbian community. Visit once and get hooked on the sunshine and spirit of a city where people from all walks of life come together to meet, shop, dine and enjoy the area’s arts, culture and nightlife.
Hillcrest, home to San Diego’s gay and lesbian community, is an exciting uptown district that celebrates diversity year-round. Strolling along its main thoroughfares, University Avenue and the tree-lined Fifth Avenue, guests are eased by the community’s openness, hospitality and quaint neighborhood charm. Hillcrest celebrates San Diego’s hip and wild side with a mix of exotic bistros, eclectic coffee houses and cafes, urban-style boutiques, nightspots and so much more.