I still don't date and it has been almost 9 months.
For the longest time, the thought of dating did feel like cheating. That feeling is gone now (finally).
I no longer compare every person to my ex.
The thought of having sex with someone else now seems exciting and not dreadful anymore.
I still do, however, get turned off by things, in other people, that I saw in my ex.
The best thing about it is that I know what I don't want.
I promise that I do know what you are going through and, I know you don't believe that it will get better but, it will.
Don't date until it feels right for you. It can take any amount of time you need it to take.
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