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Old 03-21-2020, 04:24 PM   #866
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Originally Posted by JustLovelyJenn View Post
Why is it that everyone in my world seems to think I need to make allowances for their trauma and that mine should be my own problem to deal with....
I don't know, really, but this question makes me think of my mom, who is looking really bad right now as she appears to center herself throughout my father's devastating illness. I have been trying to convey to her how entitled she is to her needs and how to seek to meet them without comparing herself to her mother and sister, who found themselves in this same situation and behaved like saints.

She's gaslighting herself into a martyrdom she doesn't need to support

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