my sweet nephew, when he married his wife, took her name and she took his and they hyphenated them. Legally. Everyone was so pleased with this!
After my divorce, I kept my married name so my daughter would not have a different name than I.
When I was married to my butch husband we talked about taking names. Instead, he took an internet affair and away he went...
I am not in position to worry about taking anyone's name but I do still have my "married" name. My daughter is married so why do I keep it? Like someone said, I have a business, several degrees, etc that have that name and I have indeed grown into it.
But I also want to not have that name. I havent decided WHAT name I want. I cant remember the girl I was with my maiden name. In fact, my first name has long been forgotten and I go by my nickname, so all of that name is gone.
I chanced upon my nickname...I think I need to chance upon the last name too
IF I were to get married...I would take my SOs last name..but he would have to take mine too. So...I need to know what that is...lol
__________________
Pole bachit, a lis chuye.
The field sees, the forest hears
|