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How Do You Identify?: femme, submissive, girl
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It's so interesting to see this thread revived after a year!
The relationship didn't work. In the end ironically she couldn't do it and I could. I broke it off last fall when I found her ability to handle it diminishing and then it becoming hurtful.
What I learned is that both parties need to make a commitment to making and keeping regular skype/phone dates, and both have to put time and energy into the little things to create the intimacy that is lacking in the physical realm. Flexibility is also key.
It's hard but I believe it can be done with the right people. Finding the right person is the biggest challenge.
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