Yeah, you go ahead and think of me as "soft" all you want JDeere, but what you said is complete bullshit. I know plenty of "hardcore" butches in real life - who like me - are very proud to be female and butch and completely masculine. It doesn't imply that we are less than hardcore.
If any female-identified butch were to suggest that a male id'd butch was "less than" it would certainly cause a stir.
Maybe instead of posting how you see other butches, you could just talk about how you id instead.
And as far as butch "brains," this sounds like the bullshit where supposedly boys think differently than girls and that's why girls aren't good at math (which is completely untrue).
Anyway, we don't need any "butch scale" at all.
Seriously, this is out of line and should not be tolerated.
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Originally Posted by JDeere
I didn't mean to offend. Im posting on what i see in my everyday world. Ive spoken with alot of butches at the bar and the ones who call themselves hardcore butch do not see themselves as female.
But i guess how one sees themselves wont always be seen by others.
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