[sylvie]

Originally Posted by proximitywithoutintimacy

I always get nervous making new threads, but here goes...

... do you ever feel like your friends, or people you are around on a daily basis, are constantly pressuring you (whether they're aware of it or not) to "prove" yourself to be a lesbian? For example, I have male friends who basically say they wouldn't believe it unless they see it. A bit frustrating.

Another aspect of this, is... some of my closest friends say they believe I'm bisexual, because I've kissed a guy before. Which is one of the most ridiculous things I've ever heard.

Thoughts?

i was married to a bio male for 3 years, and we parented 2 beautiful children together.. i've been in a few relationships since, all different from the other... for me, it's been about growth, discovering myself and walking the journey..i am who i am today, because of the journey i've walked..but none of these sole relationships define me..

anyway, all this to say, no.. i don't have the friends that insist i do that, lol..
just be 'you'.. no one should ever have to prove who they are .. true friends will accept your journey like anyone else's.. ♥ i know my friends do.. (((hugggz)))