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gotoseagrl · 10-07-2015, 11:03 AM

I've learned that sometimes you think you know all of what you want or need, until you actually have it. Then you discover even more you didn't know you needed as well as things that don't really matter after all. It can be a long list, but it evolves with good & bad experiences.

~ Someone who was genuinely my friend first
~ Differences that are complimentary or insignificant instead of destructive
~ A relationship that builds up instead of breaks down who I am - someone who brings me back home to the best of me
~ One that people who care about me the most think is right
~ Being with someone I deeply respect & admire
~ Being humbled by each other
~ Painful honesty & selflessness
~ Fears that melt away, instead of worsen
~ Believing in positive reinforcement instead of negative
~ Super strong communication that is effortless & mutually desired, daily
~ Trust that is easily earned & maintained
~ The same old-fashioned, old school values
~ A sense of humor that we sometimes can't control
~ Sharing nerdy little things in common as well as the major things
~ Perceiving flaws & mistakes with love instead of resentment
~ Someone who actively cares about their health on their own the same as me
~ Someone whose lifestyle naturally falls in line with mine
~ Dynamics that are so fulfilling & exciting :-)
~ Someone I absolutely always feel safe with ... always
~ Someone who has self control when it's needed
~ We make each other ridiculously happy over the most simple things in life
~ Someone who spoils me with love & care rather than material things
~ Someone who shows instead of tells
~ We make each other better & bring out the best in ourselves vs the worst
~ Routines & consistent structure that others would find boring
~ Someone who makes me look forward instead of backwards
~ The feeling of Christmas waking up to this person
~ Falling asleep together
~ Someone with whom I feel such a deep peace that surpasses even the greatest meditation there is
~ Someone who speaks at the same pace I do ... who happens to be born & raised where I was, in a place we both have wanted to settle in ... ok maybe this isn't a requirement lol I just got super lucky
~ Having a relationship we can't even imagine being without
~ Most importantly, we don't ever feel the need to want to change each other, because we're already so happy & healthy together as is

10-07-2015, 11:03 AM	#192
gotoseagrl Senior Member How Do You Identify?: old-fashioned queer stone submissive girl Preferred Pronoun?: mermaid, very lucky babygirl Relationship Status: Saltwater mermaid ♡ Join Date: May 2010 Location: CA Posts: 2,209 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,192 Thanked 6,116 Times in 1,726 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I've learned that sometimes you think you know all of what you want or need, until you actually have it. Then you discover even more you didn't know you needed as well as things that don't really matter after all. It can be a long list, but it evolves with good & bad experiences. ~ Someone who was genuinely my friend first ~ Differences that are complimentary or insignificant instead of destructive ~ A relationship that builds up instead of breaks down who I am - someone who brings me back home to the best of me ~ One that people who care about me the most think is right ~ Being with someone I deeply respect & admire ~ Being humbled by each other ~ Painful honesty & selflessness ~ Fears that melt away, instead of worsen ~ Believing in positive reinforcement instead of negative ~ Super strong communication that is effortless & mutually desired, daily ~ Trust that is easily earned & maintained ~ The same old-fashioned, old school values ~ A sense of humor that we sometimes can't control ~ Sharing nerdy little things in common as well as the major things ~ Perceiving flaws & mistakes with love instead of resentment ~ Someone who actively cares about their health on their own the same as me ~ Someone whose lifestyle naturally falls in line with mine ~ Dynamics that are so fulfilling & exciting :-) ~ Someone I absolutely always feel safe with ... always ~ Someone who has self control when it's needed ~ We make each other ridiculously happy over the most simple things in life ~ Someone who spoils me with love & care rather than material things ~ Someone who shows instead of tells ~ We make each other better & bring out the best in ourselves vs the worst ~ Routines & consistent structure that others would find boring ~ Someone who makes me look forward instead of backwards ~ The feeling of Christmas waking up to this person ~ Falling asleep together ~ Someone with whom I feel such a deep peace that surpasses even the greatest meditation there is ~ Someone who speaks at the same pace I do ... who happens to be born & raised where I was, in a place we both have wanted to settle in ... ok maybe this isn't a requirement lol I just got super lucky ~ Having a relationship we can't even imagine being without ~ Most importantly, we don't ever feel the need to want to change each other, because we're already so happy & healthy together as is __________________ Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say what you've got to say, and say it hot. D. H. Lawrence