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imperfect_cupcake · 09-15-2015, 12:30 PM

I'm pretty immature in certain ways. I'm a big teenager and kid. I tend to get on well great with people in their 20s and early 30s. I love hanging out with my classmates who are 18-26. My flatmate is 29 and we get on like a house on fire (im 46 going on 10-25, depending on the day). My closest new friends I make are always about 20 years younger than me.

However, I know myself *incredibly* well and accept myself FAR more and am less bothered by things about 1/100th of the degree of when I was younger. I wish I had the energy level of a 20 year old though. I know and accept my limits. I own my mistakes. I am not trying to constantly change myself into what I think a better person is, like used to. My work is now just accepting and working with the hand I was dealt.

My boundaries are waaaayyyyyyy better and I say "no way" and "fuck that" with happy confidence now!

09-15-2015, 12:30 PM	#8
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,726 Times in 1,613 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I'm pretty immature in certain ways. I'm a big teenager and kid. I tend to get on well great with people in their 20s and early 30s. I love hanging out with my classmates who are 18-26. My flatmate is 29 and we get on like a house on fire (im 46 going on 10-25, depending on the day). My closest new friends I make are always about 20 years younger than me. However, I know myself incredibly well and accept myself FAR more and am less bothered by things about 1/100th of the degree of when I was younger. I wish I had the energy level of a 20 year old though. I know and accept my limits. I own my mistakes. I am not trying to constantly change myself into what I think a better person is, like used to. My work is now just accepting and working with the hand I was dealt. My boundaries are waaaayyyyyyy better and I say "no way" and "fuck that" with happy confidence now!