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How Do You Identify?: Trans
Preferred Pronoun?: He, him, his
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For me the "delivery" of sensitive information or feedback is important. Blunt is not always received well by highly sensitive people. There is always a kind and loving way to say what needs to be said in a relationship. While the "white lie" to preserve someone's feelings or pride, may work for some, I have found that honesty is the work of clear conscience, honoring ourselves and our partners and also being worthy of the trust that is given in a committed relationship.
Being in a relationship and being lied to is just not fun.
Say what you mean, mean what you say.
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“Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along.”
― Rumi
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