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Old 03-13-2013, 11:24 PM   #3
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For me the "delivery" of sensitive information or feedback is important. Blunt is not always received well by highly sensitive people. There is always a kind and loving way to say what needs to be said in a relationship. While the "white lie" to preserve someone's feelings or pride, may work for some, I have found that honesty is the work of clear conscience, honoring ourselves and our partners and also being worthy of the trust that is given in a committed relationship.

Being in a relationship and being lied to is just not fun.

Say what you mean, mean what you say.
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