I really love this thread and am finding some very sage folks in here. I am impressed with how careful everyone is with not putting anyone on the defense. In a room full of people who might have been victims themselves, and while talking about abuse, the last thing a sensitive non abusive non threatening person would want to do, would discredit something someone said, pick apart someone's words or make them feel small for something they said...
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Pole bachit, a lis chuye.
The field sees, the forest hears
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