07-19-2016, 08:57 AM
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Originally Posted by JDeere
Abandonment is the main one, being told they will be there and end up leaving.
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The real tricky part with issues like this is not to fulfill the prophecy; to not dwell on it so much and have the insecurity affect your (general your) interactions that you (general you) actually push the other person away so that you (general you) get to say, "See! I was right!".
There is some twisted sort of comfort in molding future anguish because the known pain is easier than the unknown.
I'm not picking on you, JDeere. I saw this post and found myself nodding. Abandonment is not so much an issue of mine as judgment and judging behaviors and control issues but I think it all ties together.
We're all scarred in some way.
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Last edited by Gemme; 07-19-2016 at 09:00 AM.
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