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Originally Posted by Julie
Look - I am not going to defend the parents here or the child... Because all we have is a brief synopsis from the OP Okie.
Once upon a time my eldest was unhappy that I was a lesbian and had a very butch partner. I forced my child to live with this. I am/was the custodial parent. Was I being an abusive parent? Should they have been taken away from me, because I lived as an open out there militant dyke.
There are people in this world that feel my children were being abused by being subjected to my homosexuality.
How does this really differ? Who are we to say what is right and what is wrong?
Kids will have issues. We sometimes as parents add to their issues, but it is our responsibility as parents to be sensitive and have communication.
That would be the question for me. Are the parents being open with this child and are they hearing him and explaining things in a form which might make the child understand more?
In some communities in society - being gay or lesbian is considered deviant and kinky.
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That may be in some communities, straight ones, but it is not true. Homosexuality isn't a kink. It is about
who you are attracted to and who you love, not what gets you off or what you do in the bedroom, or dungeon, etc. Kink is an erotic category. Like Corkey said, this kid is not a consenting adult. Big difference!