02-09-2010, 12:50 PM
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Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?: Woman
Preferred Pronoun?: HER - SHE
Relationship Status: Relating
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: CA & AZ I'm a Snowbird
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Forgiveness is something that took me years to realize the spirit & internal value of. It is for my own benefit and growth. Pettiness or not recognizing how self-destructive anger can be can cost far more than I am willing to pay in this life.
I can be stubborn, yet, when I forgive and engage in repairative dialogue, I feel much more centered. Sometimes, it takes me awhile to get here, but I know it is the best path to take. Now, sometimes, the person(s) that I need to forgive and talk with, may not want to be engaged in this. But, I can't control this. I can only hold some faith in time as a healer.
Can't have a garden without nurturing and tending to it! So goes mutual forgiveness and relationship building...
Last edited by AtLast; 02-09-2010 at 12:51 PM.
Reason: goofed
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